Feminine Home
Hello Brenda, thank you for your question.
Full time. Your home and car.
Yes, I believe it is very important, to slowly re-do your home, to look (and feel) more feminine..than the way your home looked previously. You asked what tips to begin. I would begin with a bold color of paint, on an accent wall in your living room and also in your bedroom. Perhaps one color behind your bed, and purchase a bed spread with that color in it, and purchase some fabulous throw pillows from Pier One. In your living room, another wall…and find a colorful slip cover, for the old sofa. Measure, and find a new feminine color and it will slip over and fold into the sofa. Again, throw pillows in great colors! They will transform the old brown “guy” sofa.
Take all the clutter out, all of it. Only hang a few things on the wall. A nice mirror, one or two paintings. I would remove photos from the past, and find a special place in your bedroom for that. You want your living room, to have a new, statement. So, no base ball caps hanging on the rack! Smiles. If you go to the paint stores web sites, like Kelly Moore…they have a software program …you select the living room, or bedroom, etc. You click on the wall, with the color your drag over. It will show you, how the room will look, with different colors on the walls and ceiling! What a wonderful improvement, to avoid wasting time and money and the wrong color or paint. It will help you with the base boards also.
In closing Brenda, I am thrilled you’re cleaning out your home, removing the “clutter” and giving a new feminine touch! Also, look through magazines for ideas for wall colors that are feminine. A bathroom is small and easy to paint, in one solid color, and add a large vase with VERY long silk flowers…that are a second color..to the bathroom wall color. Add towels, the color…of the really tall silk flowers. Again, no clutter!! Next, scented candles that smelll yummy. Rose, lavender. A single woman, wants her home to smell as good….as she does! Call a battered womens shelter, clear out all the clothes that don’t fit, and clear out all the clutter. Now, when you come home and walk in, you will just, FEEL better. This is important for all the full time girls, you want your home to feel, look and smell feminine. Oh yes, NO trucks! Trade it in for a smaller car!!
And, have fun with it. Being full time, is a full transition of home, car, clothes–not just you!
Blessings,
Denae
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DENAE
New Procedure For Larger Lips ~SurgiSil’s PermaLip implants
For years, there has not been a way to increase your lip size…to have the full, feminine lip. Fillers, would absorb within 3 months. Fat would in about 4 months. A rubber implant, called Gortex, was used for years…giving the “big lip” look. Finally, a new product. I saw this yesterday, on the new television show…The Doctors On TV.com
Of course, do your homework. However, they did a LIVE video of how natural the lips looked, after the live procedure. This implant, comes in three sizes–and he measured her face, nose, etc..to decide which size lips to use. If you have very THIN lips, this may be perfect. Please read, from the web site below….and you can watch the procedure.
I will try it soon, and let you know. I already have tried everything in my lips, except my kitchen sink!
Denae
SEE PHOTO below. www.doctorstvshow.com We have done lips on the show before, but we broke new ground by doing a procedure with the new PermaLip implants by SurgiSil.
Enter the lip implant. They aren’t new, but they are recently improved. In the ’80’s they were made out of gore-tex material. However, they shrunk and became less elastic and more firm as the years wore on.
SurgiSil’s PermaLip implants are made out of silastic, like chin and cheek bone implants, which are much more problem-free.This recent improvement will mean that the operation will become much more popular in the near future.
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dENAE
Answer To Karen
Hello Karen, You emailed me a question–many tg women consider. Is your size, height, and weight important, when considering transition? Karen, this is a really difficult question for me. Let me try to describe what I have seen, from working with hundreds of tg woman privately. Of course, one has to be true to themselves. However, one has to be sure, they have made the right time choices. The girls I see, who succeed with the least amount of problems…have considered if they are transitioning at the right time. Do they have enough money to live on, and will they be able to work at the same job.Do they have young children, who still depend on them for food and a roof over their head, and your age.
All of you will agree that..for a genetic woman…size, weight, healthy hair, are important. I have clients tell me, they are not attracted to big or heavy genetic women. So, it would apply to tg woman also. If you are over 6 feet, and if you wear womens sizes that are in the 20’s,. if you have not lost weight, and if you have not worked on your voice…then yes…all of this will work against you. Being a woman, is very hard work, and people are hard on women. So, just realize…when you enter into the “world of beig a woman” you will have the same areas working against you. This is sad, but true. Many men, can be over weight, and still lwork. However, if your a tg woman, heavy and you have not worked on all the areas we discussed…you must consider if you are being impulsive and acting to quickly.
There are a lot of positive issues in being a woman…however this is not one of them! If you feel, you have to many areas working against you…then perhaps work in guy mode, (some even take a small amt of hormones) and let your private life, be your own business.
However, if you are a good size, and weight, and if you are able to work from home, or if you own your own business or if you can retire early…transition will be much easier for you. Life is just not fair for women. We have to use our heads, and be reasonable. I hope this helps answer your question, Karen.
Denae
TG Support Groups
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Thanks Laides,
Denae
Denae is founder of Femimage 
