I have had several consultations, for girls going to summer weddings. For a new ts woman, it is often difficult to understand what to wear…. to special occasions or weddings. Here is a general rule of dressing for that dressy occasion coming up.
What To Wear, As A Guest At A Wedding Or Special Occasion
Wedding Guest Style for Her
- Informal Daytime: Short dress or suit (business attire OK for morning weddings)
- Informal Evening: Cocktail dress
- Semi-Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit
- Semi-formal Evening: Cocktail dress
- Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit. Hats and gloves optional.
- Formal Evening or Black-Tie: Long or dressy short cocktail (beading, glam accessories, wrap)
- Ultra-formal or White Tie: Long gown, extra glitz (furs, diamonds, etc.)
Do’s and Don’ts For Your Wardrobe At A Wedding
- Don’t wear white because it competes with the bride. There are plenty of other colors available.
- Don’t wear black or sequins during the daytime.
- Don’t worry about wearing the same colors as the bridesmaids or mothers. You can’t possibly coordinate with everyone in the wedding party.
- Do wear something feminine and appropriate, out of respect for your hosts. Clubwear, overtly sexy clothing (strapless, see-through, etc) doesn’t belong at a wedding. If you have to ask if it’s appropriate, it probably isn’t.
- Don’t wear opera-length gloves (to top of arm) with anything but sleeveless or strapless gowns.
- Do take off gloves to eat or drink.
Do use good judgment if the invitation doesn’t specify the formality of the event. A pastel suit or soft floral dress for daytime or a little black dress for evening (after 6 p.m.) will take you almost anywhere. Please ladies, leave your casual clothing at home. This is your time, to shine!
Denae
