Comments on: DRAB ~ In Guy Mode http://femimage.com/blog/2007/11/26/drab-in-guy-mode/ Beauty And Image Related Help For The Serious TG Woman. Sat, 24 Jul 2010 17:00:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Renee http://femimage.com/blog/2007/11/26/drab-in-guy-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-1905 Renee Thu, 29 Nov 2007 04:50:04 +0000 http://femimage.com/blog/2007/11/26/drab-in-guy-mode/#comment-1905 Denae, you are so right about the blending of the male and the female sides of your personality. I think that the one side nurtures and learns from the other side, therefore creating the ultimate persona. I know that in my case, I have become so much more confident in my daily life, both work and personal and I have been granted the opportunity to view life through a different pair of glasses, so to speak. Realizing what the feminine side has to offer, has allowed me to be more productive, caring and focused on personal needs as well as others needs. In my case, I started out trying to use products that made my skin smoother, cleaner and healthier. This was brought on by my dressing and the need to look more feminine. What happened, though is that the male side of things looks more well groomed as well. In my business,(giving motivativational speaches), you have to look better then the next guy or girl because you are selling yourself as well as the product line. Skin care has become a very important part of my daily regiment and people do notice, so the hard work pays off. I believe that you have to take care of the guy image and skin and it will help you immensly when it comes to the female side of things as well. Hope this makes sense to you. Renee Denae, you are so right about the blending of the male and the female sides of your personality.

I think that the one side nurtures and learns from the other side, therefore creating the ultimate persona. I know that in my case, I have become so much more confident in my daily life, both work and personal and I have been granted the opportunity to view life through a different pair of glasses, so to speak. Realizing what the feminine side has to offer, has allowed me to be more productive, caring and focused on personal needs as well as others needs.

In my case, I started out trying to use products that made my skin smoother, cleaner and healthier. This was brought on by my dressing and the need to look more feminine. What happened, though is that the male side of things looks more well groomed as well. In my business,(giving motivativational speaches), you have to look better then the next guy or girl because you are selling yourself as well as the product line.

Skin care has become a very important part of my daily regiment and people do notice, so the hard work pays off.

I believe that you have to take care of the guy image and skin and it will help you immensly when it comes to the female side of things as well. Hope this makes sense to you.

Renee

]]> By: Jennifer http://femimage.com/blog/2007/11/26/drab-in-guy-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-1888 Jennifer Tue, 27 Nov 2007 04:30:59 +0000 http://femimage.com/blog/2007/11/26/drab-in-guy-mode/#comment-1888 Danae, You make excellent points in this posting. In our TSK Chapter of Tri-Ess we have several events each year where we focus on our SOs and are in guy mode. But, we don't refer to these as "DRAB" events or being in DRAB. DRAB is, well drab. So, one of gals, Jeanine Williams came up with the term DREAM - DRessed as an Extremely Attractive Man. That is your point. Be attractive whether your in female mode or male mode. I think another point you make by your comments is that dressing as a woman doesn't cure any fundamental problems you have as a man. It may be an escape but it is only temporary. One needs to be a whole person both male and female.   Hi Jennifer, thank you for your wonderful insight! I feel, this helps many new, often confused tg's who feel...in the beginning....it has to be an extreme....male or female. Blending, and keeping your day job...is great advice! Hugs, Denae Danae,

You make excellent points in this posting. In our TSK Chapter of Tri-Ess we have several events each year where we focus on our SOs and are in guy mode. But, we don’t refer to these as “DRAB” events or being in DRAB. DRAB is, well drab. So, one of gals, Jeanine Williams came up with the term DREAM – DRessed as an Extremely Attractive Man. That is your point. Be attractive whether your in female mode or male mode.

I think another point you make by your comments is that dressing as a woman doesn’t cure any fundamental problems you have as a man. It may be an escape but it is only temporary. One needs to be a whole person both male and female.

 

Hi Jennifer, thank you for your wonderful insight! I feel, this helps many new, often confused tg’s who feel…in the beginning….it has to be an extreme….male or female. Blending, and keeping your day job…is great advice!

Hugs,

Denae

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